Saturday, July 9, 2022

Anniversaries and awards ~

As a manager responsible for some of the people where I work I have the honor of giving awards to my people. That's the fun part of being a manager. Where the other part about chewing people out and giving direction and expectations and all that stuff isn't quite so much fun, giving the awards is awesome!

One of the main awards that we give where I work is a work anniversary. Not annually but every five years we give a certificate and a pin. So when somebody reaches five years of service eventually HR sends us a certificate and a pin and whoever is that person's immediate supervisor gets to present it to them. Over the years I have presented many different pens. Recently I was honored to have an employee who reached 40 years of service at our agency, which was amazing! I had the facility manager present that to him and he felt very good about receiving it. Didn't matter that it was almost a year late, which is normal and actually pretty quick for our HR department, but we still got it to him.

What's funny is over the years I've noticed differences between the generations and their attitudes about awards.

The generation before mine was all about the gold watch and the plaque when they retired. The expectation was for some sort of covered dish dinner or dessert celebration and they would finally bring their family and see where they spent all this time doing shift work in the middle of the night and early hours of the day. But that desire for the attention and celebration of reaching the point of retirement was huge for them, especially the managers. The worker people still wanted something but it wasn't quite as big as what the managers wanted and expected. And tended to set up for themselves.

My generation is different. Most of my people that have retired or received awards that are part of my generation didn't want a big deal made of it. They don't want any attention, they don't want to be seen or noticed, and at retirement they just want to fade off after their last shift and be left alone. They tend answer phone calls for a month or so but after that they don't return phone calls. My guy that just got his 40 year certificate is one of those where he is preparing to retire in a couple months. He is adamant that he does not want any kind of party or celebration for him. I'm planning on sending him something in the mail so that he can't turn it down but other than that we're not planning anything.

I have to admit I tend to be that way also. I don't really want to make a big deal about myself, I don't want people to know that I've crossed some sort of line so that they don't make fun of me or something. It's already bad enough being left out and treated like the old guy, which is on the verge of making me want to file something. I just don't really want to be noticed. And I just want when I do choose to leave my agency to fade off into the distance.

The generation after my generation is different. They're all about getting the award certificate and the pin. It reminds me of everybody getting a participation trophy when they were younger. These people are all about the getting of the award but they don't make a big deal about it. They just want to receive it because it means something to them. It's good to see, but it's also different and weird in its own way.

I'm hoping that I can stay long enough to see what the generation after them does but that's hard to tell. I'm close to retirement and my wife keeps saying I'm too young to not work anymore. I explained to her that it's not that I won't work, I just won't have a boss anymore. I'll get paid to not work!

I look forward to that award...