Monday, July 1, 2024

Fear of pickpockets ~

When my wife and I went on a Mediterranean cruise I had some memories dredged up on the excursions.

My father had spent 20 years in the Air Force. During his time in the military he travelled to foreign countries and did lots of amazing things. And he experienced some of the bad things out there. He never said he had his pockets picked but as I got older he would always warn me about pick pockets.

As a teenager I got my driver's license at 16. This meant I carried my wallet with me every day in case I got to drive. Both my mother and my father repeatedly warned me about the dangers of pick-pockets and how carrying my wallet in my back pocket like so many people do was just an invitation to have my wallet stolen. They even encouraged me to carry my wallet in my front pants pocket so if someone tried to steal my wallet I'd feel them doing it!

All of this talk about pick-pockets instilled a deep fear of losing my wallet in me. To this day I carry a smaller wallet and keep it in my front pants pocket, though recently I've started wearing a fanny pack again and I tend to put my wallet in it.

Fast forward to our cruise. Each of our tour gudes warned that it was "pick pocket season" and they encouraged us to secure our wallets and passports from pick-pockets. They even strongly suggested that if we were carrying a backpack that we should carry it in front of our body so that no one could steal stuff out of the backpack without us seeing them trying.

While I'm glad that I am prepared for this sort of thing it still dredged up that old fear that my parents instilled in me.

Weird.